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There are a few threads that run through our lives that, if you think about it, you realize how thin those threads are. My marriage is a well-covered example of that. But the second-most important aspect of my life goes back to a pretty random moment. Writing has never come easily to me. I'm not a wordsmith in the 75-words-per-sentence sense. I can't weave a complicated series of thoughts into one line. Keep it simple. State your facts. Move on to the next item. I'm not a Hemmingway fan so don't even start talking about newspapermen and their writing habits. Until the middle of high school, I was pretty convinced I was going to be a chemical engineer. That's from an era when I thought it was mostly mixing stuff in beakers and causing fires. There's still an element of that , but chemical engineering is mostly math 'n' stuff. I'm good at math, but not that good. I realized that about the time I was dragging down the class average in pre-calculous. I w

No kidding, I run through this field, through the little gap in the middle there, and up into the woods. It's time to get back in the regular habit of ... everything. The thing about having guests come to visit is it throws everything off. It's not a bad thing. It's just a thing. In that vein, I'm kicking the dog's ass again. Not literally. We're both being punished, in fact, with a daily run of 1.5 to 2 hours. We're exploring the massive and marvelous snowmobile system of Maine. The best part of it: There aren't many snowmobiles on it this time of year. You'd think this is an error, except it's spelled the same way on both sides of the sign. That brought us to the field above. It's actually from the middle of our run in Gray, on our way Northeast to New Gloucester. We come out of the woods, run through somebody's front yard, then duck into the field you see pictured above. The grass is about a foot deep in most places, deeper in others.

Snappy, the wonder lobster. I have too much to write about. This is what happens when Matt and Amy Whaley come for a visit. If you didn't go to a high school in Minnesota and don't know Matt, just imagine a hungry lumberjack of a man who pretty much everybody knows. Kudos to our wives for putting up with their man-children. Check out my guns. We have so much fun with people when they come to visit. It reminds us of why Maine is a wonderful place to be. You can skip the rest of this blog and just look at a photo gallery of the visit. This gallery only covers about 24 hours of the four nights they were here. In that time we brewed a bourbon porter in our kitchen. We went to a fancy dinner. We loitered. We went to The Great Lost Bear. We took a boat to an island and walked around. We ate lobster. We ate bacon-dusted french fries and tempura-fried bacon. Bacon. Catching a theme here? That's right, my second chin was starting to make an appearance at the tail end of the visit f

Pineland Farms in New Gloucester is a nonprofit farm/office/outdoors space. There are even horses. Not much to say here. You've been warned this was coming. Amy is back in Maine, so we're doing typical Jim and Amy things. That includes walking through grassy fields and being dorks. Monsterous, Monsterous dorks. Dorks who, when driving a car across railroad tracks, lift their hands over their hands as if on a roller-coaster and say, "wheeeeee." We're kind of sickening. I know. Low tide isn't exactly magical. Still, Mackworth Island in Falmouth is pretty awesome. We've been running around Maine in the last 36 hours. Amy got a massage while Daisy and I went for a walk in Falmouth. Tuesday, Daisy went to doggy daycare because I. Need. A. Break. And it's much more socially acceptable to send your dog off for the night than a kid. Also, you're not supposed to keep kids in crates and feed them dog food. Seriously, turkeys are *everywhere* up here. It'

It's almost, I say ALMOST, fall here. And when you live in New England, you blog about the leaves and our superiority to everything everywhere forever. OK, I might be mocking New Englandahs. If you're over the age of 25, you probably know the feeling. It's more of a realization, really, that you are slowly turning into your parents. I cannot pinpoint the exact moment this first occurred, nor regale you with a humorous tale of how this has come about. All we have is our lineage. My parents like eagles. Bald eagles, in particular. When they lived in Minnesota, they would drive a couple of hours south of the Twin Cities to the Mississippi river bluffs around La Crosse, Wisconsin. There, they would spend hours looking for bald eagles. Then they would come home. We take our hiking extremely seriously here. Now, they name the birds in their neighborhood and like to drive visitors to a tree about a mile from their home where a bald eagle lives. Or an owl. Or a hybrid of the two. I

Fact: This mountain fell apart after I left New Hampshire. Hello, TW, I am your husband. That's how it felt Friday afternoon when she came back from taking a test at school. Though she got home from Florida six days earlier, we hadn't seen each other while both of us were conscious since Sunday night. Some guys would call that an ideal marriage. I am not one of those guys. TW had the brilliant idea to go on a two-night trip months ago, as a way to go enjoy fall in New England. Unfortunately, neither of us did anything to procure a room until two weeks ago. This just in: New England is a popular destination in the fall for some reason. These statues are in North Conway, N.H. I don't know why but we can assume the reasons are quaint. For those that have not visited New England in the fall, it's pretty spectacular for two reasons: maple trees are everywhere up here and there are mountains. The combination can be breathtaking. More on that in weeks to come (with photos!). A